8. The term mother and father are almost always taken for granted, and surprisingly not by children but by the actual role players. Many run away parents disregard the title and many part time parents do not respect the title. Every situation is different and should not be judged unless accordingly. If a mother cares more for her addiction than her children or if a father has built a new family and sees their biological child once a month, then they are abusing their title. A parent should not be defined by blood ties,but rather the actual influence they offer to the children. Meaning anyone could fulfill the role of a caring and responsible adult. You don't have to be a father to be a good dad and you don't have to biologically be someones mother to be a good mom. Being a parent does not gift you with the entitlement of being a good mother or father.